Indaba yokuzivikela emphakathini wanamuhla iyavela phambili. Njengoba kubaluleke kakhulu, umbuzo othi “ungazivikela kanjani?” uthinta abesifazane abaningi kunabesilisa. Kunabesifazane abasengozini enkulu yokuba yizisulu zokuhlaselwa okuyingozi. Lezo zinhlobo ezahlukene kungaba lapho isisulu sihlaselwa isikhathi eside noma sivele sigxuma sisuka nje.
Cabanga ngokuphepha komuntu siqu
Ubugebengu obuvame kakhulu obenziwa kwabesifazane ukudlwengula. Njengamanye amacala, ukudlwengula kwenzelwa ukukhombisa ukubusa komuntu onamandla ngokomzimba kunomunye. Ukuhlaselwa nokuhlaselwa kuhlala kuqondiswe kwabesifazane ngoba abakwazi ukuxosha futhi mancane amathuba okulwa nomhlaseli.
Izibalo zibonisa ukuthi ubugebengu obuningi obubhekiswe kwabesifazane benziwa ngamadoda, abangaziwa. Iziqondiso ezilula zokuzivikela kanye nezincwajana zabesifazane (nezingane) ezitholakala kumawebhusayithi amaningi zizochaza izimiso zokuqala zokugwema lezi zinkinga. Ngezinye izikhathi lezi zimo ziyabikezelwa uma ubheka inhloso yokusongela ekuziphatheni komuntu okuzungezile. Ukulandela amathiphu alula okuzivikela kwabesifazane kuzokwenza kube lula ukunciphisa amathuba akho okungena enkingeni.
Izindlela zokuzivikela
Kunezindlela ezilula kodwa ezisebenza kahle kakhulu. Ama-alamu omuntu siqu ayindlela yokuzivikela elula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa elula kakhulu futhi etholakala kabanzi. Lezi zinto ezingabonakali zenzelwe abesifazane ngakho akudingeki ukhathazeke ngokuphepha kwakho. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ziyahlukahluka ngobukhulu kusukela kokuncane kakhulu nokukhanya kuya kokukhulu, futhi zingasetshenziswa njengemihlobiso yezikhwama. Lezi zindlela zokuzivikela ezidumile ziyindlela yokuqala yokuzivikela yamantombazane.
Isikhathi sokuthunyelwe: Agasti-03-2022